Best Conversation Starters

So you are on a date, a first date and you arrive, you meet her and then - silence. You want to speak, make a good first impression, but then the words simple won't come out. Hesitation is the worst thing. it breeds lack of confidence and that can be a very off putting thing. Stumbling across your words or basically talking nonsense is not the best way to start your date. The key is to be prepared. You may have that gift where you can naturally start talking and are confident etc. If you are not, then basically prepare a few things that you would like to start off the conversation with. Where you have heard that is good to ask questions, it can be beneficial to start with a question. How are you? A simple enough one, where they can respond and then the heat is n them to talk. Talking about things that interest you are the best things to start with. You will be more able to express yourself about things you are passionate about of have a view / opinion on.

Here are 5 dating tips on ways to strike up conversation.

1) Humour. Everybody likes humour in one sense or another. It is how people communicate, form friendships and bonds. The best humour is not pre-prepared but whatever comes naturally to you. Obviously stay away from humour that is offensive. You could simply pick some out of a really bad joke book, just to see how your date will react. Pick ones you feel are funny. Just to get a reaction or insight some emotion. They may turn round and say those jokes are awful. Even better, the conversation is kicked off and you can say well you thought they were OK and maybe hint at a next date and say that next time you will both go to a top stand up comedy show. Slipping in the idea of a second date already.

2) Work - Chances are you date has a job or is looking for one. So the age old question " what do you do for a living?", will spark a response. If your job interests you, then you can talk confidently about it. You can talk about previous jobs. Ones you loved, ones you hated. There has got to be a funny story in there somewhere. Also you can talk about your goals and ask if they have any goals themselves in the job market.

3) Expression - Get them to express themselves and think of an answer. Basically it's not what you say but how you say. Everybody watches movies once in a while, so you could ask them, what was the latest movie you watched and why did you pick that particular one. People's movie choices often reveal a bit about their personality and mind-set. Holiday destinations, last DVD or CD you bought. Even ask them what is last song that they listened to and did they pick it for a particular reason.

4) Compliments - Everybody likes to be appreciated and complimented. So the first thing you do, is pay them a compliment. It doesn't have to be a conversational starter, but you can be a bit intrusive and ask them how long they chose to decide to wear that particular outfit. Comment on their hair and also shoes if they are very nice.

5) Embrace Your Nerves - Honesty even if you feel it makes you look a little less confident can be admirable, as it shows that you have the ability to not always take yourself so seriously. Admit that basically you are not sure what to say. You had wanted to ask something and it completely escaped your mind. They to can be very nervous and unsure what to say. It breaks the ice and then you will have that to talk about.

If you are on an escort date then you could use some of the above to kick start talking. Harrow escorts love going on dates, especially with first time clients. They are accustomed to gentlemen being nervous and are very friendly and down to earth. You will find they are very interesting, so you could start off with some humour and find they share the same sense of humour as you.